The almost-to-be 100th post

Somehow this was almost my 100th post even though i haven't actually posted so much posts in the past 9 months. There were drafts, and accidental saves, and a few special posts that were somehow buried here without me even remembering them. But yea, this is my 93rd post so i'm just going to say something to make a milestone after blogging for so long =P

*Thanks for everyone that is reading my blog still, really keeps me blogging at times because of a "how are you", "thanks", and even the reader thingie beside my blog adding up day by day*

The specialness of human nature

Humans are somehow one of those most special creations of God that seems to just make no sense at times.

We often say "yes" when our brains says so while our hearts don't,
We often do things we want to do but not the things we need to do,
We push, when the sign says pull,
We break things that we know are fragile,
We sometimes say or write things we don't fully mean,
We always have three fingers pointing back at us,
We always try to get things we don't have but forget about the things we have,
We can easily notice a small dot on a big white piece of paper,
We ask more than we give,

We seriously aren't perfect, but it doesn't mean that we should stop trying. Each and everyday, the sun still shines even though he knows that it'll just get dark again. Spiders still continue their never-ending spirit of building their webs, animals still roam the land even thought they know that everything will fade one day. If they aren't stopping, why should we? Plus, God loves us so much that He gave His one and only son for us. That, is a big enough reason =)

So much to say, but so little words to use.

Thank you for the day Lord, for another breath, another spectrum of light, for every sip of air, for every droplet of water, and every small crumble of Grace, Hope, and blessing in my life.

Thank you mom and dad, for working and saving so hard to send me over to this wonderful place to study, for loving the unlovable parts of me, for bringing my into this world, for showing me how great love is, for raising and teaching me, for crying when you had to whip me, for always not finishing you food and leaving the rest for me, for giving me stuffs that you guys know are the best, for never having me lift a finger at home, for giving me my dearest brother, for being the best parents i could ever wanted, and lastly, for being the most important part of my earthly life.

Thank you brother, for just being my dearest brother, my personal adviser back home, my playmate, my friend, and never saying "i love you" but still mean it.

Thank you my family, for sharing the same blood and loving me more than just because of that.

Thank you my friends, for showing me how different people are, how the world has so much to see and try, for crying, eating, playing, studying and doing stuff for me. Though we seldom meet at times, thanks for the lessons you've taught me, and the memories that i'll bring on in life.

Thanks to all the not so good stuffs that have happened in my life. You taught me to fear, and it's from fear that everyone learned to grow stronger and be a better person each and everyday.

Oh well, that's all about it guys. =P Cya, once i survive from the dreadful mock ahead ><




I guess,

I'm just lazy.

女朋友是...

* 希望大家会喜欢 *

女朋友是...
女朋友是...
女朋友是:要來溺愛的。
愛她的方法只有三種:溺愛,溺愛,然後還是溺愛。
女朋友是:要來明白這個世上除了男人之外,原來還有一種兩腳生物,是你窮畢生的聰明才智也沒法理解的。你不能吃她,又不能不理她,只能愛她。
女朋友是:要來訓練膽識的。
家裡有蟑螂,壁虎或任何可怕的小生物,你去殺生。
前面好像有什麼危險,你去看看。
遇到惡人,你上!
女朋友是:要來練習臂力的:
所有重的東西,你拿。
不時要抱抱。雖然你沒比她重很多,而且她最近吃很多,屁股甚至比你的大。
親熱之後,雖然很累,你的手臂還是要伸出來讓她的頭枕著,讓她覺得幸福。
女朋友是:要來自找麻煩的。
有的時候,你覺得沒有自由。
沒有的時候,你發現這樣的自由有點蒼白。
女朋友是:要來百思不得其解的。
你永遠弄不明白,為什麼她平時買了那麼多的衣服,每次要外出時仍然會苦惱地對著衣櫃抱怨:
「天呀!我沒有衣服穿!」
女朋友是:要來違反天性的。
男人明明是天生會到處播種,到處留情的動物,然而,你卻會因為她而明白,欲只可以寸進,惟有愛可以直抵心房。你竟會為她想到守身如玉。
女朋友是:要來提升男性荷爾蒙的。
每一次,當你滔滔不絕地談到你的工作,你的理想,每一次,當你大發議論的時候,你看到面前這個女人,她微笑的眼睛望著你,充滿仰慕和崇拜,那一刻,你突然覺得,你在這個世界上是多麼的重要,你是個多麼了不起的男人。
女朋友是:要來明白有一種幸福叫做寒冷。
嚴寒的夜晚,她理直氣壯地把一雙冰冷的腳丫往你暖洋洋的肚子踩過去,你卻竟然覺得有一種說不出的溫暖的幸福。
女朋友是:要來讓你變回一個小孩子的。
你明明已經長大成人了,這個女人還是會在餐廳裡把好吃的菜送到你嘴裡,而你竟然會不在乎旁人的目光,張開嘴巴吃得津津有味。
女朋友是:要來心軟的。
愛上了她,你才發現原來你不是鐵石心腸的,原來你還是很怕女人哭的。
女朋友是:要來挑戰人類極限的。
看過她睡覺時流口水的樣子,你還是覺得她可愛。
看過她最糟糕的時刻,你還是很想跟她一起。
原來,你可以這麼愛一個女人。
原來,你可以這樣等一個女人。
女朋友是:要來欺負的。
你做夢的時候儘管可以這麼想。
女朋友是:你不想她跟別人結婚,可她想你跟她結婚的時候,你卻又會害怕。
女朋友是:她把最多的思念留給你,你卻害她流最多的眼淚的人.

Canning College School Ball 2008

Just in case some random guys from Russia came and read my blog and didn't have any clue on what had happen to my life in the past 4 hours. Today, was my school's first annual school ball. Yes, first, we, dance floor *mind me, in love with the dance floor*.

It turned out much more than i would have ever expected, except the romantic dances under the moonlight, okay, that wasn't much practically. Thank you DJ, for the nice pop songs, that gave everyone somewhat a night to remember. Thank you everyone for dressing so ever nicely and making the night a success. Thank you Canning College, for creating such a chance for us to mingle around with people. Thank you Jervynna (hope i don't spell this wrong), for being a personal FA. Thank you mom for giving me money to go to the ball and getting me nice clothes to go to. Thank God for the nice weather too. Last but not least, thank you friends, for giving me these priceless memories.

Okay, enough with the thanks speech. Now, let's follow the night with pictures =3 No blog post can be complete without pictures xDxD




- This was the decorations for out mini cafeteria into a dance floor. Sorry for the weird lightning, my phone can't take really good pictures within enclosed areas. But see the helium balloons, poker cards around, small dance floor in front, flashy tables with mini stars on them. All for our James-Bond themed dance of the night.

- Yea, this is the table that we all had. In total there was like 12? Can't much remember. around 90 - 100 people, loads of fun, food, drinks (non-alcoholic), dancing, sweating, camming, laughing, loving, music, dry ice, balloons, and a lot that is stored somewhere in my puny brain >"<

- This is liz, and yea, you might guess that i'm really fortunate to live near such a beautiful girl. But.......... Yeah, i'm fortunate to have met such a nice friend in Perth xD

- This is Joanna, really nice-to-be-with girl too. Really fun when active and provides loads of laughter around. =P

- Jonathan, my own hommie in Vickery House. Close buddies in Perth, been through a lot here, and still going on really good xD

- This is my chemistry-buddy-gone-into-my-life. We sorta started out friends since sitting back in chemistry class. Without him, i would have practically died in chemistry >< too =")


- This is kar kiat. Humerous, fun, really really well organized person, leader-like, and a good friend to be around with. =3

- This is wen hui. I think we've met in my old high school before i switched to my new high school. +1 for Miri people x)
- Our four lovables are here. From left, Joyce, Kelly, Liz and Sam. Thanks for the encouragement (Joyce), Fun (Kelly), Special foods (Liz), and fun again (Sam) throughout the year. Really appreciated what you all left inside this year.



- I think this is called camwhoring? Ok, i'm been taking a few pics, cause they are really fun to play with the camera and wonder what angle will produce what. The blurry one is Tim, my Hong Kong friend that always wants to chop people with a knife, sings beautifully, and spices up things in Vickery (jk about the chop people thingie ><) And on my right is Edward. He doesn't usually smile so naturally. Been a hommie for as long as i've been here too. If you want to know him more, visit more often, i might even make a dedicated post for him xDxD

- Lastly, this is me. A young boy that is here to pursue my dreams. Growing through stories to be told to my grandchildren. Embracing each and everyday with a greatful heart, innocent and naive still, but still loving life as it is =3=3

I thought today was a simple dance night, but it seemed more of a milestone in my life. More like a finishing touch towards my ending college year. In about a few more months time, i'm about to embark on a new journey in life, my actual dream of being a lawyer, reaching a nearer stage of being a man, much much more to see and experience once again.

One day i might have already forgotten about tonight, this year and everyone, and even though the ball ended just as fast as our college year has been, i believe one day that we'll all meet again, the same people, the same dance floor, the same hearts.

I still remember

That day, when everyone was looking at me and wondering how i couldn't get my "b" and "d" well differentiated.

Then mom came and said,


"It's only 2 words of the alphabet, have you looked at the rest of the 24 alphabets that he's tried and done well?"

Till today, that keeps me going on.

Happy Mooncake Festival

It might be a little bit late, but happy Mooncake festival everyone =)


And though it might not be this year, i hope that this canbelong to you next year =3=3



礼仪与礼貌

很久很久以前, 就从我有记忆以来, 爸妈都很注重我与人们沟通上的礼仪及礼貌. 不论何时何地, 都必须要以至高的礼貌待人. 原本觉得这一切都很客套, 但现在明白爸妈都很有远见, 为了我准备好一件的礼物, 我的私人面具.

事先申明, 礼仪和礼貌并不时时都是面具, 但在必要时, 它却能是你最佳的面具, 能顺利的带你演完一部的戏.

在有需要的情况下,

当你看到自己不想见的, 做了自己负担不起的事, 或则是无意间伤到了任何的人, 这面具可以是最直接的保护, 免了你受到人家的排挤, 眼光, 和想法. 再怎么糟的情况下都会有台下. 礼仪与礼貌, 就是为了避免大家尴尬.

或许你会觉得带着面具的人都好虚伪, 需要假装的面对人. 但是这个世界是残忍的. 礼貌, 能给出人们大家最想见到的一面, 也能掩护了不想让人看到的泪滴与欢笑.

抱歉了, 如果你觉得我一直以来以礼待人是因为这样. 不瞒你说, 我有尽力了, 尽力试着打从心底发出关怀与爱心, 以至高的尊敬和珍惜来对待身边的朋友 (家人免谈, 他们早已得到这一切了). 当颗小小的心无法在容纳他与你时, 我能做到最好的, 就是对着你, 礼貌的微笑了.

Did you know?

That Forever once spelled " For Eve and Ver ",
while now, it's just a song from Chris Brown.

ME, You and the Dance Floor =3=3

Despite

Despite the hot days that are coming through,
Despite the tons of stuff i have to do,
Despite the fact that i'm having two different socks on my feet,

This is going to be a nice sweet day,
For You granted such a day,
And living it for You,
is just the most wonderful thing that can happen =3

With heaps of love,
Oliver =D

其实没有这么难.

终于又上来post东西了. 其实我一直都有想上来这里写些东东, 但是怕又乱乱写, 大家看了乱乱讲, 然后我又乱乱paiseh 而不敢上来吧. 但是这么历史性的一刻, 我又怎么能错过了机会把它批上来呢? =p=p

- 男生学着 女生听着 -


女生 : 我能够知道为什么你会喜欢我吗?
男生 : 这个答案很长, 需要我用一辈子来说, 你准备好要听了吗?
女生 : = = 别学电影里的对白吧. 说下真心话, 为什么你会喜欢上我呀?
男生 : 好啦, 但真的有点长... 就从你的脚说起. 每当我看到你小小的脚所走过的路就会觉得很心疼. 虽然想把你背起来, 但我知道我不能这样做, 因为我希望你能在我的打气下自己努力走下去.
女生 : 好怪哦 =.= 从来没有听过有男生会喜欢女生的脚...
男生 : 当然还有你的手呀... 你小小的手, 让我想永远都牵着她, 让你不需要再担心过马路了. 听清楚, 是我们的一生哦...
女生 : 我... 我... 我... >"<
男生 : 等我说完再来抱我吧 =3 你知道吗, 呆呆的看着你的眼睛, 能反照出了有你的未来是多么的美好. 夜里闭起眼睛想到你, 缓缓的呼吸, 似乎让我感觉到你的气息. 能每天梦见你, 再辛苦的一天都值得了. 最后, 虽然我们的爱情并不能完成你我, 但因为你的存在, 我却更想完成自己, 好让我一直都能保护你.

我对感情的看法就是那么的天真, 而我也不想为了任何人改变它 =P 这次的赌注我输了, 输得彻底. 放心吧, 还没有到跳楼那样的地步. 想说的都说了, 可惜你不会看的懂, 也听不到我亲口说. 今晚结束了后就笑一笑呀, 明天仍然会很值得你开心的过下去的.

小辉上,
草于2008年9月3号
8.24 p.m.